The Veterans Administration, in its list of authorized emblems for its headstones, has been a pioneer in recognizing diverse beliefs. They have recently added the Hammer of Thor, named Mjölnir (Crusher), to accommodate the wishes of sincere devotees of pagan (Ásatrúar) beliefs. They also include other pagan symbols, Jewish, Native American, Sikh, atheist, and humanist emblems. Though the list is growing longer, the VA seems to be receiving and processing applications without prejudice to accommodate all beliefs.
Though MAAF has been accused of opposing religious symbols on personal gravesites, this has never been the case. MAAF applauds the actions of the VA to treat all beliefs equally and to honor the wishes of veterans and their families. The Department of Defense currently does not allow humanists to identify as humanists on their official records, but if a humanist dies, then they can be buried under a humanist headstone.
Though outreach to national leaders has not been successful, local Veterans Administration offices in San Diego and West Palm Beach have worked with local humanists to ensure equal treatment for humanists. In addition, the VA took steps to protect veteran families from unwanted evangelism by VA volunteers.
The VA has required some outside pressure. On behalf of Circle Sanctuary and the family of a Wiccan who had died in combat, Americans United for Separation of Church and State successfully sued to add a Wiccan Pentacle in 2007. Even at the time, there were 38 symbols with more being approved, and the Pentacle seemed to suffer special opposition. The continuing use of the emblem shows its need.
(Added 7/13) commenter Ryan Jean notes “The crane article marks another milestone, as it involves the nation’s first military veteran to win permission to have her same-sex spouse buried in a national cemetery as a result of the DOMA downfall.” Actually, the article states VA policy has not changed, but the same-sex burial was provided as a single case. He refers to the Sandhill Crane, which they say “represents the perfect expression of their relationship.” This is a fascinating development in that it seems to represent not an organized religious expression but rather an entirely personal emblem of their relationship.